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Umdlalo, owaziwa nangokuthi "Isihlalo Seqiniso," iyindlela ejabulisayo nehehayo yokuthi abangani bachithe isikhathi ndawonye, ​​okungeza injabulo kanye nokuthintwa kwenselele. Inikeza izindlela ezimbili zomdlalo:

Inothi elisheshayo ngaphambi kokuthi sixoxe ngezindlela: Umdlalo uza nemibuzo elungiselelwe ngaphambilini, ihlukaniswe izigaba ezimbili. Isigaba sokuqala sithi "Imibuzo Ejwayelekile," ifanele umndeni nabangane abangathandi imibuzo enzima. Isigaba sesibili sithi "Imibuzo Ayinacala," eyenzelwe abangani abaseduze abangeke bacasuke ngisho noma imibuzo iphoxa noma ihlekisa—konke kungaphakathi kwemingcele yokudlala. Kuzo zombili izimo, ungaphatha izigaba zemibuzo ngokungeza noma ukususa noma yimiphi imibuzo engafanele isikhathi sakho. Ungakwazi futhi ukufinyelela imibuzo engezwe abanye abadlali efwini, futhi ungakwazi nokunikela ngeyakho imibuzo ukuze bayibone abanye ababambi qhaza.

Amamodi Atholakalayo:

Imodi yokuqala ithi Iqiniso Lakudala noma Isibindi: eyaziwa nangokuthi Imodi Eyodwa. Kule modi, umdlali oyedwa ukhethwa ngokungahleliwe kubadlali abakhona. Ucingo bese ludluliswa phakathi kwabanye abadlali ngokuya ngemiyalelo esesikrinini yomdlalo. Umdlali ngamunye unethuba lokubuza umbuzo, futhi umdlali "esihlalweni esishisayo" kufanele aphendule ngokwethembeka. Uma umdlali engazi ukuthi yini okumele ayibuze, silungiselele imibuzo eyahlukene kusukela kugeyimu ongayisebenzisa. Ukwenza iseshini ibe inselele kakhulu, ungasetha umkhawulo wesikhathi sokubuza imibuzo. Uma isikhathi somdlali siphela futhi engakawubuzi umbuzo wakhe, umbuzo ojwayelekile osuka kugeyimu uzokhethwa ngokuzenzakalelayo.

Imodi yesibili ithi Iqiniso Labadlali abaningi noma Isibindi: Le modi ihluke kancane. Abadlali bakhetha isigaba semibuzo yabo ngaphambi kokuqala komjikelezo. Uma umdlalo uqala, inani elingahleliwe labadlali (oyedwa, ababili, noma ngaphezulu) bayakhethwa, futhi bonke bahlala "esihlalweni esishisayo" ngamunye ngamunye. Umdlalo ube usukhetha ngokungahleliwe umbuzo womdlali ngamunye, futhi kufanele baphendule ngokwethembeka kuyilapho abanye abadlali belalele impendulo yabo.

Imodi yesithathu ithi Iqiniso Leqembu noma Isibindi:

Ifana negeyimu yeQiniso noma ye-Dare yabadlali abaningi, kodwa bonke abadlali bazobuzwa imibuzo ngaphakathi kwegeyimu, futhi umdlali ngamunye kufanele aphendule umbuzo wabo ngokwethembeka.

**Qaphela: Uma uqhamuka nombuzo ongaphezu kowodwa ngesikhathi esisodwa, yigcine kuwena futhi ungatsheli muntu kuze kufike isikhathi sokugwema ukubuzwa ukuthi ukhethiwe yini.

- Izici zegeyimu:

1- Usayizi wegeyimu mncane kakhulu futhi awuthathi isikhala esiningi ocingweni lwakho njengeminye imidlalo yokuzijabulisa efanayo.

2- Silungiselele imibuzo ehlekisayo, eminye yayo ephoxayo, yonke inhlekisa.

3- Akukho mkhawulo enanini labadlali; ayikho inombolo enkulu, kodwa kukhona ubuncane babadlali abangu-3.

4- Izindlela eziningi.

5- Isici samafu siyatholakala ukuze ungeze imibuzo yakho, futhi ngemva kokuba isibuyekeziwe, izotholakala kwabanye abadlali kuseshini yeQiniso noma Yesibindi.