Umdlalo Womshado

Uma uphatha ubuhlobo bakho bothando isikhathi eside kungase kwenzeke ukungaqondi kahle. Lesi yisikhathi esifanele sokuba ngumkhwenyana/umakoti, phakamisa intombazane yakho enhle emshadweni wothando.

Dlala indima yomfana oyi-bachelor endabeni esanda kushada yomdlalo wombhangqwana wothando. Shayela imoto yakho yezemidlalo uqonde endaweni yokudlela lapho intombi yakho ikulindile isikhathi eside. Uthukuthele kakhulu kulokhu futhi waphuma endaweni yokudlela. Shayela imoto yakho ubheke esitolo, uthenge indandatho yedayimane nezimbali zentombazane yakho. Misa umlingani wakho womphefumulo, phakamisa ngesitayela sobuqhawe futhi umcele umshado ojabulisayo.

Indaba esanda kushada yomdlalo wombhangqwana wothando iwumdlalo womndeni omangalisayo. Usuku lwakho lomshado luseduze ukuze uzilungiselele umshado ongenakulibaleka, hamba futhi uqashe imoto ehlotshisiwe yomcimbi womshado. Tshela umakoti wakho onothando ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle futhi uhlale emotweni yomshado. Shayela imoto yakho yomshado ewubukhazikhazi ubheke esontweni ledolobha emcimbini womshado.

Nishintshisane ngezindandatho zenu futhi nithathe nezifiso kumalungu omndeni wenu nasezihlotsheni zokushada. Manje umthwalo wayo wokwenza umakoti wakho omuhle ajabule. Thatha unkosikazi wakho ubheke ehhotela ngemoto yakho yomshado ewubukhazikhazi, lapho abangani bakho nozakwenu bekuhlelele khona iphathi. Thola izifiso zomshado futhi ubatshele ukuthi ujabule kangakanani ngemva komshado.

Vumela ukuhamba isikhathi eside nomkakho omuhle, ngakho shayela ngokucophelela endaweni enezintaba. Manje sekuyisikhathi sokubuyela ekhaya, wonke amalungu omndeni akulindile. Indaba yabasanda kushada yomdlalo wombhangqwana wothando iqukethe umdlalo omnandi wombhangqwana osanda kushada kanye nabathandi bemidlalo yomshado.

Indaba yabasanda kushada yothando izici ezibalulekile:

• Cela umshado ngentombi yakho ethukuthele.
• Dlala njengomkhwenyana futhi ushade nenkosazana yakho.
• Shayela imoto yakho yezemidlalo kanye nemoto yakho yomshado ehlotshisiwe.
• Umdlalo oyingqayizivele futhi omangalisayo.
• Thola izifiso ezivela kubavakashi, amalungu omndeni kanye nezihlobo.