I want to cheat!

Ukukhohlisa intombi yami ngaphandle kokubanjwa!

Angifuni intombi yami ihlukane nami.....
Kodwa ngifuna ukumqhatha......
Khona-ke, kufanele 'ngikopele' ngingabanjwa!!

Le geyimu esebenzisanayo ihlola ukwesabeka kokukopela kanye nokuhlukumezeka ngokomzwelo okuwumphumela. Njengomlingiswa ojolayo, umdlali uhlangabezana nokungqubuzana nengqondo ngemuva kwesenzo. Lo mdlalo uhloselwe ukukhanyisela ukuqonda ukuthi ungakanani umthelela wokukopela ongaba nawo.

[Ukugeleza kwegeyimu]
Ukudalwa kwezinhlamvu: Abadlali badala umlingiswa ukuze bazimele. Ungakhetha ubulili, ukubukeka, igama, nokuningi.

Ubudlelwano Bozakwethu: Umlingiswa wakho uthuthukisa ubudlelwano nezithandwa nabashade nabo. Ezigabeni zokuqala, kunezifundo zokwandisa izibopho zothando nokwethembana.

Izilingo Nokungqubuzana: Njengoba igeyimu iqhubeka, abalingisi babhekana nezilingo. Abanye abalingisi bayethulwa futhi amathuba obudlelwano ayakhula. Abadlali kufanele banqume ukuthi bayakopela noma cha.

Imiphumela Yokukopela: Uma ukhetha ukukopela, umlingani wakho angase athole ngezenzo zakho. Umphumela uba ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo kanye nenhlekelele. Abadlali babhekana nemiphumela futhi bazizwele okwenzeka ngemva kwalokho.

Ukuzindla Nokubuyisela: Ngemva kokuhlupheka imiphumela yokukopela, abadlali benza izinqumo zokulungisa imizwa yomlingiswa wabo kanye nobudlelwano nabalingani babo. Ungazama ukuzisola, ukuxolisa, noma ukubuyisela ukwethembana, kodwa kukumdlali ukuthi anqume ukuthi uyaphumelela noma cha.

Umphumela: Umphumela wokugcina womdlalo unqunywa izenzo zomdlali nokukhetha kwakhe. Kunemiphumela ehlukahlukene, njengokuthi ingabe ubudlelwano phakathi komlingiswa nozakwethu buyalungiswa noma buqhubekela enhlekeleleni.

[Umthelela womdlalo]

Izinselelo Namasu: Abadlali kumele babhekane nezilingo nezimo ezinzima futhi baqhamuke namasu okuzinqoba. Kudingeka ukufunda imizwa namaphethini wokuziphatha wenye ingxenye bese wenza isinqumo esinembile. Ukuqonda komdlali nokwahlulela kuzovivinywa, futhi kuzoba nezinselele zokuzuza ukunqoba.

I-Rising Tension: Kulo mdlalo, izimo zishintsha njalo futhi abadlali kufanele benze ngaphandle kokubanjwa. Lokhu kushuba kuvuselela ingqondo yomdlali futhi kwenza ukuzizwisa kwegeyimu kugxile kakhulu. Impumelelo idinga ukukhalipha nokukhalipha.

Ukuziphendulela Ngezinketho Nemiphumela: Kulo mdlalo, ukukhetha kwabadlali kunomthelela omkhulu ekuqhubekeleni phambili nomphumela wegeyimu. Abadlali kufanele bazibophezele ekukhetheni kwabo nokuthi kubathinta kanjani abalingisi babo nendaba. Lo muzwa wokuzibophezela ukhulisa ukuzibandakanya komdlali futhi ukhuthaza ukucwiliswa kwendaba.

AMATHUBA OKUFUNDA NGEMPELA: Lo mdlalo uyithuba lokujulisa ukuqonda kwakho ubudlelwano bempilo yangempela kanye nesayikholoji yabantu. Ngokucabanga ngezingozi zokukopela nemiphumela yako, abadlali bangaphinda bakuqinisekise ukubaluleka kothando nokwethembana. Ungalindela futhi ukufunda ngemidlalo futhi ukhuthaze ukuzikhulisa.

Ukuqinisa Amabhondi Nobambiswano: Umdlalo umayelana nokubaluleka kobambiswano nokuqinisa amabhondi. Abadlali bangathuthukisa ubudlelwano nabalingani babo kugeyimu futhi babone ukubaluleka kokwethembana nokuxhumana. Ngalo mdlalo, ungathola iziphakamiso zokwakha ubambiswano olungcono nasebudlelwaneni bakho bangempela bempilo.

Isikhalazo Sokuzijabulisa: Umdlalo unesakhiwo esithokozisayo kanye nokusonta okumangalisayo. Abadlali bangakwazi ukugxila endabeni futhi bazwelane nemizwa nobudlelwano babalingiswa. Ukufaka izici zokungabaza nezothando kuvumela abadlali ukuthi bajabulele ukuzijabulisa kuyo yonke igeyimu.

Indima Ekhanyayo Nezemfundo: Umdlalo futhi unengxenye yokufundisa yomdlali njengoba udingida izindaba zomphakathi. Ngokugxilisa igeyimu emiphumeleni engemihle yokukopela nokuba sengozini kobudlelwano, abadlali bathola ukuqonda okujulile kwezingozi zayo kanye nemiphumela, okubanikeza ukuqonda okwengeziwe ngokuziphatha kwabo kwesikhathi esizayo.